Cyberstalkers share some traits in common with rapists. Both of these mentally damaged types have an obsessive urge to exert imagined power over another human being and both expect complacency from their victims. When the victim is not destroyed and refuses to be complacent - indeed, actually fights back, the mental defective loses all touch with reality.
It becomes obvious there is a severe lack of self-esteem. So, I dug up some enlightening quotes on that very topic. Lo and behold, the very first quote is most apropos...
"To wish you were someone else is to waste the person you are.” Cyberstalkers, are you listening?
More quotes on self-esteem:
“I CAN is 100 times more important than IQ”
"Believe in your dreams and they may come true; believe in yourself and they will come true”
"You must love yourself before you love another. By accepting yourself and fully being what you are, your simple presence can make others happy.”
"You yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe, deserve your love and affection.”
"Why compare yourself with others? No one in the entire world can do a better job of being you than you.”
"Instead of thinking about what you're missing, try thinking about what you have that everyone else is missing.”
"Love yourself, for if you don't, how can you expect anybody else to love you?”
"Go out in the world and work like money doesn't matter, Sing as if no one is listening, Love as if you have never been hurt, and Dance as if no one is watching."
"If you aren't good at loving yourself, you will have a difficult time loving anyone, since you'll resent the time and energy you give another person that you aren't even giving to yourself.” ~Barbara DeAngelis
"Low self-esteem is like driving through life with your hand-break on.”
"There is overwhelming evidence that the higher the level of self-esteem, the more likely one will be to treat others with respect, kindness, and generosity.”
FIND MORE SELF-ESTEEM QUOTES HERE.
So... Cyberstalkers, the next time you get the urge to hurt, understand that you are really striking out at yourself. You victimize yourself. And you drive the faint wisps of your self-esteem even further into the ground. Your intended victim is probably laughing at you. Not the reaction you planned at all, is it?
Find something constructive to do that will make you truly happy rather than rely on using someone else's life as your urinal. They aren't there. You didn't hit the target at all. The pee just runs down your own leg. You are alone in your self-loathing.
Stop the cycle. Build up your spirit. Be the person you always wished you could be. Just..do..it.
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